Why I converted to Islam.
by:
Dr. Jeremiah D. McAuliffe, Jr., Ph.D.
Because of historical occurrences and certain current events, Islam may be
the most misunderstood-- and simply unknown-- religious tradition in the
Euro-American West.
No, it is not a "religion of the sword," nor is it inherently violent. The
overriding goals of Islam are:
- adl: balance
- ahsan: compassion
- ilm: knowledge
- sabr: patience
For the purpose of understanding we need to distinguish between two uses of
the words "Islam" and "Muslim".
Islam1 and
Muslim1
mean "submission to the will of God" and "one who is in submission to the will
of God", respectively.
Islam2 and
Muslim2
refer to the 1400 year tradition that goes by that name. Its foundation is the
text of the Qur'an and the example of Muhammad, called the
sunnah.
Thus, Islam
1 calls all people to monotheism and encourages all to
strive to be Muslim
1 as best they can. It is not strictly necessary
for all people to be Muslim
2-- though of course we think it is the
best way to be truly Muslim
1. We accept Jews and Christians as
believers and accept that there are
hanifs: legitimate
monotheists outside of a tradition. We consider Abraham to be hanif.
The opening of the Qur'an is considered to contain its essence:
In the Name of God, the Compassionate, the Merciful...
Glory to God! Lord of the worlds!
The Compassionate, the Merciful.
Master of the Day of Judgment!
You alone we worship,
You alone we turn to for help.
Guide us to the straight path,
the path of those whom You have favored,
not that of those with whom You are angry,
nor of those who have gone astray.
Muslims2 pray this at least 17 times a day!
The Qu'ran
The Qur'an is the compilation of utterances by Muhammad following certain
episodes of unique experience. Muslims
2 believe that during these
times the text of the Qur'an was dictated to Muhammad by the Angel Gabriel. We
consider it to be the verbatim Word of God-- the same Deity referred to by
Abraham, Moses and Jesus. Here is what
Karen Armstrong, a non-Muslim
2, wrote about the
first of these experiences:
Muhammad had had that overpowering apprehension of numinous reality which
has devastated prophets and seers in most traditions. In Christianity it has
been described as the mysterium terrible et fascinans and in Judaism it
has been call kaddosh, "holiness", the terrifying otherness of God.
...The Hebrew prophets had also cried out against the vision of holiness,
fearing that they were close to death: "What a wretched state I am in!" Isaiah
had cried when he saw his vision of God in the Temple, "I am lost!" Even the
angels shielded themselves with their wings from the divine presence but he
had looked on the Lord of Hosts with his own impure eyes. Jeremiah had
experienced God as an agonizing pain that filled his every limb; like Muhammad
in the embrace of the Angel, he experienced revelation as a sort of divine
rape. It invaded his being with a fearful force, doing violence to his natural
self... What all these prophets had experienced was transcendence, a reality
that lay beyond concepts and which the monotheistic faiths call "God".
These "episodes of revelation" continued periodically for 23 years. Muhammad
was about 40 when they began and he died about age 63. Before this began his
nickname was
al-Amin, "the trustworthy". He was an orphan, made a living
as a merchant, and grew to be a good-looking, responsible, and well-liked man.
Before these episodes began he would have been considered a hanif.
Interpreting the Qu'ran
As we all know, any religious Scripture may be interpreted in a way that
satisfies one's own whims or desires. Indeed, some seem to engage in actual evil
and then use religious Scriptures to rationalize their behaviors! The Qur'an is
no different. Here are some guidelines for a proper understanding:
1.
Linguistic Integrity. It is only considered "the Qur'an" in the
original Arabic. Arabic translates poorly into English and so this must be taken
into account. Often, there is no English equivilent for an Arabic word.
2.
Historical Context. Each "episode of revelation" was in response to
a specific question or specific situation. When it comes to Qur'anic
interpretation "context is everything".
3.
Reference to Muhammad's Actual Behaviors. Called the
sunnah.
It is derived from the
hadith ("sayings") literature and the
practice of Muhammad's companions. The foundations of
Islam-as-religious-tradition (Islam
2) are comprised of the Qur'an and
the sunnah of Muhammad. Muhammad is considered to be a "walking Qur'an". His
example displays or embodies Qur'anic principles.
4.
The Totality of the Message. Any particular interpretation must fit
within the total ethos presented by the Qur'an as a whole.
The Qur'an describes itself as having both clear and ambiguous passages.
Thus, there are differences among Muslims
2 about its proper
interpretation. There are also differences concerning the interpretation of the
hadith literature from which we derive the sunnah. Because thousands of people
came to accept Muhammad's claim to be a messenger from God the hadith literature
contains detailed, and sometimes graphic accounts of his words and deeds. Some
of today's Muslims
2 seem to emphasize aspects of the sunnah such as
beards for men and certain types of clothes. Some consider these of foundational
importance for Islam
1. Others consider these accounts to be of
secondary or no importance for Islam
1. They look more to Muhammad's
character and personality-- taking into account his cultural context as a sixth
century Arab-- more so than others. The personality characteristics exemplified
by Muhammad are listed by one author as:
- Politeness
- Kindness
- Love and Mercy
- Forgiveness
- Generosity
- Hospitality
- Sacrifice
- Simplicity
- Humility
- Modesty
- Sincerity
- Honesty and Truthfulness
- Fair Dealing
- Justice
- Fulfillment of Promises
- Piety and Righteousness
- Moderation
- Perseverance
- Courage and Bravery
- Humor.
Muhammad, in general and especially early on, did not permit the writing down
of his extra-Qur'anic sayings during his life-time, being fearful they would
become confused with the text of the Qur'an. Many intra-Muslim
2
fights are over the sunnah.
JIHAD!
Jihad is not properly translated as "holy war" but as "struggle of
good against evil". Jihad is the attempt to fully establish Islam
1 on
the planet, in our communities, and in ourselves. It contains Islam
2's
theory of just war, but also contains much, much more.
Because Islam
2 is firmly wholistic (the Field Model), it
encourages jihad in all arenas of human expression: psychological, social,
physical, political, and economic as well as spiritual. It is wrong to reduce
jihad to but one area of life as we often see some Muslims
2 doing
today.
Islam
2 allows physical warfare only against aggressors after
attempts at change, treaty and reconciliation have failed. If peace is offered
it is to be accepted.
from "Muhammad: A Biography of the Prophet" by Karen Armstrong:
The Qur'an began to urge the Muslims of Medina to participate in a jihad.
This would involve fighting and bloodshed, but the root JHD implies more than
a 'holy war'. It signifies a physical, moral, spiritual and intellectual
effort. There are plenty of Arabic words denoting armed combat, such as
harb (war), sira'a (combat), ma'araka (battle) or qital
(killing), which the Qur'an could easily have used if war had been the
Muslims' principal way of engaging in this effort. Instead it chooses a
vaguer, richer word with a wide range of connotations. The jihad is not one of
the five pillars of Islam. It is not a central prop of the religion, despite
the common Western view. But it was and remains a duty for Muslims to commit
themselves to a struggle on all fronts-- moral, spiritual and political-- to
create a just and decent society, where the poor and vulnerable are not
exploited, in the way that God had intended man to live. Fighting and warfare
might sometimes be necessary, but it was only a minor part of the whole jihad
or struggle. A well-known tradition (hadith) has Muhammad say on returning
from a battle, "We return from the little jihad to the greater jihad," the
more difficult and crucial effort to conquer the forces of evil in oneself and
in one's own society in all the details of daily life.
Tawheed
Tawheed is an untranslatable term that contains within it the Muslim
2
understanding of the implications of strict monotheism. According to some
writers who bridge the gap between East and West tawheed is not easily grasped
by those coming out of Euro-American traditions. It expresses a radical
monotheism that severely restricts symbolic, figurative or anthropomorphic
language to explain the relationship between Deity and creation. The Qur'an
contains descriptions of God's activities and attributes often compiled as "The
99 Names". Prime among these is an absolute and total Uniqueness and Unity.
Tawheed anticipates the current fascination with "wholistic" thought or
health. Tawheed is the means by which Islam
2 expresses a wholistic
conception of human life and the cosmos; integrating physical, social,
psychological and spiritual concerns into a consonant whole. The parts of
experience "fit together".
According to Isma'il Faruqi, tawheed implies the following about reality:
- God and creation are ontologically separate. There is no pantheistic,
panentheistic, or anthropmorphic tendencies permitted in our discourse about
God.
- Human beings can comprehend what God wants us to do.
- Human life and all of creation is imbued with meaning and purpose.
- Human beings are capable of molding life and the world according to the
dictates of Islam1.
- The individual is responsible for molding life and the world according to
Islam1.
Tawheed also contains within it a foundational scientific approach to reality
containing three principles:
- Rejection of all that does not correspond with reality.
- There are no ultimate contradictions.
- Openness to new and/or contrary evidence.
Under Muslim Rule
Ahmad Hashem, a great guy I'm glad to know, has written in
reference to Muslim writer
Jawdat Sa'id:
A fundamental principle of Islam is that Islam is fairness and mercy to
all--Muslims and non-Muslims. The Prophet (SAW) was sent "not, but as a Mercy
for all creatures" (21:107). This Mercy extends even to non-Muslims, who will
continue to co-exist with Muslims forever. After all, "If it had been your
Lord's Will, they would all have believed, -- all who are on earth!" (10:99).
Thus, Muslims are one of many nations. The verse "Nay, you are but humans,
--of the humans He has created" (5:18) applies equally well to Muslims and
non-Muslims. Muslims cannot give themselves special privileges or favor
themselves just in virtue of their being Muslims. Muslims are supposed to be
"witnesses over the nations" (2:143). A "witness" must be fair. "Say: 'My Lord
has commanded justice'" (7:29).
The political system in Islam has justice for all as its supreme principle.
"When you judge between mankind, judge with justice" (4:58). "If you judge,
judge in equity between them. For God loves those who judge in equity" (5:42).
Note that one principle of justice is spelled out in Quran as "No compulsion
in religion" (2:256). Now, only the person who rejects the principles of
justice for all mankind is considered an apostate. According to Sa'id, if a
person converts out of Islam we should congratulate the group that s/he
joined, for apparently they had something to offer that we Muslims didn't.
BUT, if a person rejects the political Islam, i.e. rejects the principles of
justice which include "no compulsion in religion", then (and only then) this
person is an apostate and must be dealt with as such.
An important lesson must be learnt from the verse that permitted Muslims to
use force for the first time in their history: "To those against whom war was
made, who were subject to injustice, permission is given (to fight)" (22:39).
Note that these people were subject to injustice. Further, note the
"compulsion in religion" part: the verse goes on to describe those to whom
permission was granted to fight as "those who have been expelled from their
homes in defiance of right, (for no other cause) except that they say 'Our
Lord is God'."Only when we stick firmly to these principles of justice", Sa'id
claims, "would we fulfill the role of "witnesses over the nation."
Sexism & Violence?
There is no doubt that some Qur'anic passages, especially in translation, are
very disturbing and might seem to the person of good will to contradict Islam
1.
This is especially the case with gender relations. There are passages that seem
to allow domestic violence and sexism, and there are certainly men who use those
passages to justify and rationalize various attitudes that are abhorrent to men
and women of good will. However, a proper approach to the passages show these to
be empty rationalizations and misinterpretations, not to mention a blindness to
the totality of the Islamic ethos.
The Qur'an addresses human behavior as it is, and strives to improve it. It
does not deny the presence of various types of behavior. So, it acknowledges
that people who are harmed may want some kind of revenge or retribution. This is
allowed, but "it is better" to forgive. It acknowledges that slavery exists and
so then directs slave-holders to feed, clothe and treat them as brothers. It
also continuously encourages the freeing of slaves. So, we can't say that Islam
2
necessarily approves of slavery-- the ethos is against it-- but IF a culture has
slaves it gives ennobling guidelines on their treatment and encourages change.
The Qur'an does not deny human behavior, but seeks to change it.
The same is true for passages that seem to encourage sexist and violent
behavior. The Qur'an directly addresses the bottom line in human behavior--
there ARE men who beat their wives, so the Qur'an says this can only be done
lightly (Muhammad explained with a toothbrush, not on the face or head, not to
leave a mark) and only AFTER arbitration and separation have been tried.
Essentially, it is addressing the situation of a couple who are not very Muslim
1
to begin with. ALL social relations are to be based on mutual consultation,
kindness, courtesy, good-will, and regard for justice.
Muslims Today
Islam
2 could certainly make use of a good PR consultant these
days, couldn't it? More often than not, Muslims
2 appear far, far from
Islam
1 and thus engage in inappropriate behaviors towards our Jewish
and Christian cousins. Some reasons for extremism are given by
Yusuf al-Qaradawi in
Islamic Awakening Between Rejection
and Extremism.
- Extreme irreligion will produce extreme religion.
- Lack of knowledge of, and insight into, the purpose, spirit and essence of
religio-spirituality.
- Failure to contemplate Qur'an and sunnah in their entirety. Unable to see
relation between the parts and the whole. ("grasp the ethos")
- An inability to differentiate between the figurative or metaphoric, and
the literal meanings of texts. (the "fundamentalist-gnostic" duality)
- Partial knowledge. This can show as failing to take into account original
purposes and circumstances.
- Intellectual shallowness showing as an intense interest in marginal issues
and as excessive extension of prohibitions.
- Emphasis upon allegorical texts-- inappropriate conjecture.
- Failure to recognize the sunnan (patterns or natural law) of God's
creation. (failure to engage in science)
Often, when we view Islam through the eyes of the popular media, we are
seeing complaints of social-political-economic injustice that are being
expressed in religio-spiritual language. It would be a grave error to presume
that the majority of Muslims
2 share the sentiments portrayed in the
popular media, though they may be sensitive to the cause of the complainants.
But much of the extremism is our own fault: a centuries-long decline in
intellectual engagement with the sources of the tradition and with God's
creation. This decline can be represented by the phrase "closing the door to
ijtihad" and the concurrent rise in
taqlid over the course of
centuries. "
Ijtihad" is the interpretation of the Qur'an while "
taqlid"
is a blind following of past modes of interpretation. Many are beginning to
recognize this problem.
Patrick Dempsey dan Jillian Fink
bertemu di tahun 1999 secara tidak sengaja, ketika Patrick berniat untuk
mencoba potong rambut di salon tempat Jillian bekerja. Pertemuan ini
ternyata bukanlah sekadar antara pegawai salon dan customernya, namun
juga artis dan fans-nya. Saat itu Patrick memanglah belum menjadi
superstar seperti sekarang ini, namun Jillian sudah mengidolakan pria
berwajah kebapakan ini. Mereka pun akhirnya menjalin kasih dan menikah
di tahun itu juga. Kini, setelah 15 tahun, mereka telah memiliki 3 orang
buah hati dan Jillian masih menjadi tukang potong rambut Patrick.
Ketika Anne Hathaway dan Adam Shulman
memutuskan untuk menikah, banyak orang yang menyayangkan pilihan wanita
cantik bersenyum lebar ini. Adam memang bukanlah superstar atau
miliarder, seperti apa yang diharapkan orang-orang dari suami seorang
Anne Hathaway. Itu yang jadi penyebab beberapa fans menilai pilihan Anne
ini adalah pilihan yang buruk. Namun cinta mengalahkan segalanya.
Setelah Anne harus kecewa karena mantan tunangannya, Rafaello Follieri,
terlibat kasus penipuan, seorang sahabat memperkenalkannya pada Adam.
Mereka pun langsung tertarik pada satu sama lain hingga akhirnya
memutuskan untuk mengikat janji setia di tahun 2012.
Matt Damon dan Luciana Bozan bertemu di
sebuah bar di Miami, Florida, ketika Matt sedang bersembunyi dari
kejaran para fans. Luciana yang saat itu sedang bertugas di belakang
meja bar, membantu Matt untuk bersembunyi. Luciana pun menjadi
satu-satunya fans yang tak dihindari oleh Matt, dan mereka malah
menjalin cinta yang awet hingga sekarang. Menikahi seorang wanita yang
bukan dari kalangan artis, rumah tangga Matt memang hampir tak pernah
diterpa gosip perselingkuhan ataupun keretakan rumah tangga. Kini mereka
memiliki 4 buah hati, satu di antaranya adalah putra tiri Matt dari
pernikahan Luciana sebelumnya.
Nicolas Cage dikenal sebagai aktor
klasik di Hollywood sekarang. Pria yang memulai karir keaktoran sejak
usia muda ini memilih seorang wanita biasa untuk menjadi pasangan
hidupnya. Dengan statusnya sebagai aktor papan atas, tentu tak sulit
bagi Nicolas untuk mendapatkan aktris cantik. Namun, hatinya memilih
Alice Kim. Mereka berdua bertemu di sebuah kedai makanan siap saji di
tahun 2004. Saat itu, Alice yang memang sudah mengidolakan Cage sejak
muda, meminta tanda tangan sang aktor di selembar lap meja makan. Tak
disangka, Cage juga memberinya nomer ponsel pribadinya. Mereka pun
memulai hubungan cinta setelah itu, dan kini memiliki satu putra bernama
Kal-El.
Julia Roberts dan Danny Moder menikah di tahun 2002. Mereka bertemu di lokasi syuting The Mexican,
di mana Danny adalah juru kamera film tersebut. Keduanya sama-sama
memiliki pasangan kala itu, bahkan Danny sudah menikah dengan seorang
wanita yang namanya sengaja tak diperbincangkan di media. Demi menjalin
kisah romantis artis dan fans, Danny pun menceraikan sang istri, dan
Julia Roberts memutuskan kekasihnya pada waktu itu. Kini, keduanya telah
memiliki 3 buah hati dan rumah tangganya jarang diterpa kabar tak
sedap.
Cash Warren sudah 'jatuh cinta' pada Jessica Alba sejak tahun 90-an, ketika Jessica memulai debut keaktoran lewat Dark Angel.
Ketika akhirnya dia menapaki jalan sebagai produser film, impian
terbesarnya adalah bekerja sama dengan sang aktris pujaan. Tak
disangkan, Cash dan Jessica pun bertemu lewat film Fantastic Four,
di mana Cash berperan sebagai asisten produser. Jessica pun akhirnya
mengetahui bahwa sang asisten produser adalah seorang fans-nya, dan
mereka pun berkenalan. Kisah cinta pun dimulai dari sana. Kini keduanya
telah memiliki 2 orang buah hati, Honor Warren dan Haven Warren.
John Travolta dan Kelly Preston adalah
kisah klasik Hollywood tentang cinta sang fans dan idolanya. Saat John
membintangi film musikal Grease dan menampilkan pesona baru
remaja SMA nan tampan dan pandai menari serta menyanyi, Kelly pun
berujar, "Dia adalah jodohku." Beberapa tahun kemudian, ketika Kelly
sudah berhasil menembus industri perfilman Hollywood, mereka berdua pun
dipertemukan. Mimpi Kelly akhirnya menjadi kenyataan, berjodoh dengan
sang aktor yang dia puja sejak remaja. Kisah romantis ini tak pernah
menua, dan selalu berhasil menguraikan senyum para fans yang membacanya.
